lol1tas asked: i am chinese and my parents are very anti-black racist. i try to call them out when they make racist remarks. i take time to explain, at length, why their comments are hurtful. but every time i think something has stuck, they make another racist remarks. this has gone on for several years now. i just can't seem to get through to them. i love them, but hate their racism. i am at a loss as to what i can do.
be honest. accept that this is their choice, and make the long hard journey into this truth. you can only ever choose for yourself, love. it will alter your relationship, and you will still love them, but you must leave them be. sending you mountains of bright strength and warm honey :)))